08-08-2009, 12:54 AM
Meer's 100% correct. The amazing thing about love is even when it doesn't work, you'll be amazed at what you learn once you can stop focusing on the pain and start moving on.
Until then, don't grovel. Don't send her texts and call her on the phone. You're holding onto something that isn't there now. You need to realise, be it long or short term, that it's over.
I went through the exact same thing a few years ago. It sucks, it really does. But I'm a completely different person now than who I was back then. I've grown and learned a hell of a lot about myself. I even found a girl who is exactly like me to the letter; if I thought I was in love in my past relationship (I wasn't), then I'd have to substitute a word higher than love for my girlfriend now.
Until then, don't grovel. Don't send her texts and call her on the phone. You're holding onto something that isn't there now. You need to realise, be it long or short term, that it's over.
I went through the exact same thing a few years ago. It sucks, it really does. But I'm a completely different person now than who I was back then. I've grown and learned a hell of a lot about myself. I even found a girl who is exactly like me to the letter; if I thought I was in love in my past relationship (I wasn't), then I'd have to substitute a word higher than love for my girlfriend now.
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