08-08-2009, 09:48 AM
Don't try to hold onto the past if the past is splitting in half like the titanic. It can make you myopic and shift your perspective for the worse. Its for better and for worse, a gift and a curse. Some good will come out of this, you just have to check yourself and give her more space than she asked for. Make sure you don't fry your own circuits, because if you do she won't really go through what you went through. Stress is an amazing thing that we allow ourselves to do to ourselves. Meditate and then go do something physical that you like.
And avoid repeating too much of what you already explained to her (ie: how you feel about her, etc.) because she already anticipates you saying stuff like this if your conversations are all just trying to hold the relationship together. You can't hold everything together, not even Superman could hold everything together.
Go love someone else because she's not sharing the same emotion with you and you should also try talking to other different variety of girls.
And be open-minded to losing people, especially if they're going one way and your going another, but you both still occupy the earth and can run into each other another day.
Time heals wounds, scars are just reminders that we've been here for a while. You'll be alright man.
And avoid repeating too much of what you already explained to her (ie: how you feel about her, etc.) because she already anticipates you saying stuff like this if your conversations are all just trying to hold the relationship together. You can't hold everything together, not even Superman could hold everything together.
Go love someone else because she's not sharing the same emotion with you and you should also try talking to other different variety of girls.
And be open-minded to losing people, especially if they're going one way and your going another, but you both still occupy the earth and can run into each other another day.
Time heals wounds, scars are just reminders that we've been here for a while. You'll be alright man.