09-11-2009, 03:26 PM
Good luck with that Aero, it took me a year to get over a woman who I still think could possibly be my soulmate. It's been years since I spoke to her but I remember going a year without talking to her and just pulling myself together and getting over her.
Then she called me and within a few minutes all those emotions I worked hard to get rid of during that year flooded back and I was left weak. I didn't go back to her, I ended up just mentally saying 'Fuck you Karen.' and taking a few more months to finish killing the emotions I had for her.
Recently I had to do the same thing, it's difficult but in the long run it's worth cutting someone out your life. To keep them and potentially let their presence cloud your sight from another who could possibly love you and bring true joy and peace in your life isn't a risk I no longer want to take.
Then she called me and within a few minutes all those emotions I worked hard to get rid of during that year flooded back and I was left weak. I didn't go back to her, I ended up just mentally saying 'Fuck you Karen.' and taking a few more months to finish killing the emotions I had for her.
Recently I had to do the same thing, it's difficult but in the long run it's worth cutting someone out your life. To keep them and potentially let their presence cloud your sight from another who could possibly love you and bring true joy and peace in your life isn't a risk I no longer want to take.