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Sorry guys. - Violet - 11-12-2006
Quote:Originally posted by Pan
Our relationship was(maybe is???) far far perfect, we've been in marriage counciling for about a year now and this is the note I recieved when I walked in.
"I will see you at our appt. Mon. @ 3pm. I will explain. I do still love you."
I don't know what this means, but it scares me...to no end. When she talks like this, it usually isn't a good sign.
Well, it'd probably be good to go to that appointment. Even if it gets much worse, still a good idea to go. I love you, man, you've been my homeboy since...well, since about the time I joined. I feel for you right now, and even thought I've never been married (Although I was close, I was engaged there for a while), I know how it feels. Just don't do anything stupid, because there ARE people that care about you, myself included. Fuck if it is over the internet, you're still my homie. <3 If you ever want to talk or vent or anything, you know where I am at.
Sorry guys. - Burter - 11-12-2006
I was gonna lock this, but if you're feeling better, I'll let it go. I don't want people posting about someone killing themselves
Sorry guys. - Celipa - 11-12-2006
Dana...I really can't..wow. I'm so sorry man. All I can say is that you should definitely go. I wish you the best, and you'd be in my prayers if I was religious. This really just blows me away.
Sorry guys. - Reijin - 11-12-2006
Dude, you need to go to that appointment. Regardless of good or bad outcome, you have to show the initiative to go rather than run away from the result. If you go, it may work out better. If you don't, then its the exact same as you walking in the door, going "FUCK YOU" and walking out. As far as her eyes are concerned anyways.
Either way, I'm really sorry for this outcome, and I really hope it works out. If it doesn't, you still have a lot going for you to move on and live for, and it will be another chapter finished and moving to the next chapter, but you still have a long life to live. You've done a lot for her, but I know you guys have had a lot of problems (like the random people showing up at your door causing trouble o.O), so I can only hope for the best.
Sorry guys. - Spencinator - 11-12-2006
=( Dana, I-I, fuck, I don't know what to say.
Just... I hope things get for your man, and please, come talk to me if you ever need a friend.
*Sigh.*
Sorry guys. - Krillin - 11-12-2006
Quote:Originally posted by Kollifum
Maybe she's just leaving to make you miss her, know what you'd lose. My girlfriend's done that to me a couple times.
It'd be pretty damn heartless of her, then.
Dana, I'm not going to beg you to not kill yourself. I don't need to. I've talked to you, and I know you're a reasonable guy. I know you won't kill yourself. You've got too much to live for. Life is good, even past the mists our mind can sometimes spin around situations.
My AIM is always open.
Sorry guys. - Banned Dana - 11-13-2006
well, 15 minutes until I leave to go see my wife for the meeting.
I seriously hope that this is all a hormonal thing or something and not a permenant break up, but I have some real doubts. Wish me luck guys, hopefully I'll come back with good news, but either way, I'll be coming back with news.
Sorry guys. - Mowgli - 11-13-2006
Good luck man
Sorry guys. - Krillin - 11-13-2006
Quote:Originally posted by Yamcha
Good luck man
Sorry guys. - Bujin - 11-13-2006
My thoughts are definitely with you, man. Good luck!
Sorry guys. - Banned Dana - 11-13-2006
thanks guys, lord knows I'm going to need it. As I said, I'll give you guys as much info as I can as soon as I can, whether it be through tears of joy or sadness.
Sorry guys. - Old Pigero - 11-14-2006
Dana, that really sucks. I mean, things have been going on pretty bad around my house and people... and it pales in comparison. If you need someone to talk to, I would love to talk to you.
Your in my prayers,
Senka Surakei.
Sorry guys. - Nori - 11-14-2006
I have no idea of the kind of torment that you have been feeling.
All I can say is Goodluck.
Sorry guys. - OldYamcha - 11-14-2006
Quote:Originally posted by Bujin
My thoughts are definitely with you, man. Good luck!
/late
Sorry guys. - Banned Dana - 11-14-2006
Well, it's official, we're divorsing. =(
I'm ok though...for some reason.
Sorry guys. - Mowgli - 11-14-2006
I was about to post earlier because I was wondering what had happened. I think you may be ok with it now..because maybe you guys discussed it and you understand her reasons and agree with her?
Edit: I'm glad your cool with it
Edit2: not cool with it, ok with it, and I'm sorry it didn't work out.
Sorry guys. - Bujin - 11-14-2006
Well...that sucks that you're divorcing, but at least you seem to be on good terms.
And man, if you ever want to talk, I'm practically always here. <.< I have a wife, so I almost understand what you must be going through.
Sorry guys. - Ruhiel - 11-14-2006
Damn. Just... damn. At least it seems that things went fairly amicably. Hang in there, Dana. You'll make it through this alright. As the old adage goes, "what goes up, must come down. And what goes down must eventually come up again." But not on THOSE terms exactly (for those people who have their heads in the gutter). Just, things will get better, I promise.
Sorry guys. - Banned Dana - 11-14-2006
i don't like the fact that we're spliting, but I do love michelle enough to let her go. So far we've agreed to stay as friends, be emergency contacts and stuff, but if it becomes too hard, we've both agreed to completely seperate.
I love her, probably always will.
Sorry guys. - Banned Dana - 11-15-2006
no, it's official. We just both don't believe that we need to exclude ourselves from each other. Don't know how long that will last, but there's always a little hope friendship can last.