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I don't know what to do... - Mal Nova - 03-07-2010
Those that have folloed me and my ex gf seperated in October ansd there have been rough drama patches... as shes on my main front bowling team, Liquid Courage, a spot she and my step mom talked my stepsister out of...
Now I know I have anger and attitude issues and my life of Drama causes me to actually carry them obto here, which is not an excuse as IM a 23 year old man.
I do appreciate opinions from this site, as you can be more unbiased then those involved...
So here goes...
Well as I stated in another area, Thursday we went to the Bowling alley EARLY...(I ride with my stepmom andshe wanted to go get my Ex a Bday cake cuz it was her bday) and as soon as I got there and before I started to even practice bowling... My back had pinched a nerve.
I bowled a 100 and 102(my average is in the 80's) And I drank two pitchers of budlight from the start of practice to the middle of the second game in order to numb the friggin pain.
Lol
Near the start of the first game IM standing beside my stepmom and I had to hear, "He's the best man I ever had" Her talking about her bf and I told my stepmom I didnt need to hear that and walked off.
Well I stopped the drinking halfway through the second game and ate a burger but the mother fucker hurt(My back). Ex is loving the spot light and attention she is getting and something happens between me and her... and I say to someone else that I'm gonna slap her. Trying to say it low and just saying it to say it.
I mean its just idle dumb talk and she either hears it or someone tells her and she goes to her hognose bf... and tells him and at the start of Third game after I bowl he decides to tell me something like if I ever want to slap someone that I can can come slap him.
I stopped for a moment... Thought for a second... and the thoughts that crossed my mind were...
Pinched Nerve... cant exactly fight... Fighting would get me into jail... Jail would cause me to lose my Job.
I tapped Ryan (the 4th boler aside from me my dad and my ex) on the shoulder and told him that IM down and to mark me as quit and walked out.
Came in after a few minutes and changed my shoes got my ball and waklked back out.. I was gonna finish the game but yea...
I called/texted a few friends, family and a cousin... and I can say the first friend I called I had started tearing up...
As I am the Captain of the team and up and quit.
I was gonna plot vengance...
Cuz RObert, the new BF seemed so damned cocky like he was ready to go to jail like a fucjking idiot. Most likely still jealous of me or under the influence.
Well after the game was over... my dad had left his phone... and they called my step mom and said they'd leave it at Lil' Cricket(The store I work at)... and is a place FAR out of their way...
I had to hear it and I knew they were going there to start BULLSHIT. They talked to Amanda, one of the Assitant Managers that don't care to hear the Dumbness. and they said I was shitfaced drunk. She told them that She didn't care and was going home. Lol
They had did this before previously when I had just recently started and got called in after being the better man of it all and offering for her me my dad and even her BF to practice bowling and I would pay... She had started BS with me about my ex and I got pissed and slammed pitcher of Budlight after pitcher then got asked to come in... they dropped me off and went there to sayI had been drinking.
Melissa asked me if I had when I got in there..and I said yes amnd I was told not to clock in...
So this isnt the first time...
I Went home after bowling and took a nap though... still pretty sober... WOke up and went to work...
And then asked the New person what they had come in here bitching about... i KNEW they were gonna say i was deirnking but the new person wasn't sure. Lol... I asked the person they went, Amanda, to the day after and she told me.
I have been told that I should just finish the few weeks left out to try and help the team... though I said they could just bowl me blind or get a sub to do so and I would finish paying it out to still get my money reward for whatever.
And Im undecided, but if I go I iwll have a chick there that can fight Just in case...
ANd aside from writing and strategey it is my favorite hobby and I am not happy with letting Ryan and my old man down...
As an added piece to it Friday night I learned they had wanted to come over Earlier that day and shit... but got told no.
No I am usually right ...USUALLY at guessing what and why... call it paranoia... But IM am positive it was to come... try yo get on my nerves...
I get told time and time again by others since I pay so much rent to say i dont want them over... BUT... my stepsister beleives it and I believe my stepmom said it that Joannie(The ex) is more like a daughter to her then her own.. which is BS and wrong IMHO...
I never denied saying what I said.... thats for sure... but I know from a few weeks ago that the BF is jealous....
I had the night off... And she had invited the ex and bf over..I had her invite Ryan and fam too so I could own ass in poker lol. I HONESTLY KICKED RObert out of the game within 5 hands. Later on.. the three, my stepmom Joannie and Bev, Ruyans girl wanted to take the three mopeds to the store and Robert showed his ass cuz Joannie had drank MAYBE half a 22 ounce bottle of Budlight LIME...
I mean I was wiating on the cops to show up....
I saw my dad stagger after they had went to the store and Robert was outside being a little bitch when he(my dad went to throw ta beer can in the trash. I told Ryan I was done in a few games.
When Joannie and trem got back and Joannie went outside to talk to the hognose Bitch boy... And came in and said that Robert had told her, "Why don't you go in their with Bryan, he still loves you, " I stated it was my last game and went to my room...
Walked out my room in time to learn that the fuckwads were staying the night in the living room...
I wasn't comfortable about it... Cuz Its UNCOMFORTABLE FOR ME... and i don't forget how dirty they had been....
But I guess ... all that being said...
What do I do?
I have been the Better man... long enough... but jail is not for me nor is losing my job because of so...
Should I try to finish out the League? For the other two of teh team?
If so... THAT means I will be drinking Thursday night a lot... as IT IS MY DAY OFF AND I PLAN to have... a Friend... of the female orientation... there JUST IN CASE...
Or should I really QUit? Pay for the last few weeks and hope they can get a sub? If i am bowled blind it's an auto 10 points under my average and aside from the pinched nerve I was getting better....
What do you think?
I don't know what to do... - Dehan - 03-08-2010
Harsh but serious advice: You're 23 and acting like a 13 year old. Grow up.
I don't know what to do... - Ashe - 03-08-2010
Jacob Wrote:Harsh but serious advice: You're 23 and acting like a 13 year old. Grow up.
Speaking of, stop talking to that one girl! (I'm kidding. I think last I checked, you had already gotten away from her.)
I don't know what to do... - Victoria - 03-08-2010
That was kind of hard to read, but from what I got from it, what I can say is stop getting into situations that involve the people that are bugging you.
I don't attend parties or events that ex's or ex friends or people I hate are going to be at, so I can avoid any issues. Find another hobby, or another team, and think about moving out maybe?
I don't know what to do... - Dehan - 03-08-2010
Victoria Wrote:I don't attend parties or events that ex's or ex friends or people I hate are going to be at, so I can avoid any issues.
This!!
Do eet.
I don't know what to do... - Vad - 03-08-2010
I avoid all social contact. My image folder keeps me company.
Take Victoria's advice though. Don't become me.