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Decision - Burter Jr - 01-28-2006
You arn't gonna like this.
But get over it. I'm not saying it'll be easy, but it's in the past and the best you can do is make sure it never happens again
Decision - Old Dave - 01-28-2006
Don't ruin your life, trust me, killing someone blows.
EDIT: six years have gone by..just let it go.
Decision - Broli - 01-28-2006
Six years ago is a LONG time. I understand that you're upset, but there really isn't any reason to take any action over something that happened six years ago. Leave it in the past, even if you don't want to.
Decision - Toshiro - 01-28-2006
Life get's fucked up man. Trust me, my sister algedly got molested at the age of 9, my step sister and step brothers where both raped by their uncle at the age of about 13.
You can't let it get to you man. The most important thing is to be there for her to help her.
Decision - Hellfighter 17 - 01-28-2006
If you're thinking about, like, hurting who did it to her, that probably wouldn't help, as it could just make things more complicated for her. Being there for her is probably the best thing to do
Decision - Broli - 01-28-2006
You also have to keep in mind that this girl has had 6 years to let what happened to her set. If you did anything, it could cause more harm than good by causing her to have to relive it again.
Decision - Bra - 01-28-2006
Kirano, I'm going to give you the best advice I possibly can right now. And it sucks, but I think it helps, at least for the short term. Find something really solid, something that won't break under force. And beat the living shit out of it. Split your knuckles open. And then beat the shit out of it some more. At the very least, you'll focus on the pain to take your mind off everything else. More likely, you'll just feel better for having beaten the shit out of something.
But... don't give into your thoughts. You're above that. Believe me, I've been in your situation before. Yes, it was for different reasons, but the end result was the same. Instead of focusing on the bad, focus on what you can do to set things right. This girl... treat her special. Make her future ten thousand times better than her past. You weren't around when that happened, but now that you -are- around, nothing like that'll ever happen again, know what I mean?
Decision - Super Buu - 01-28-2006
I can't honestly say the guy doesn't deserve to die. I would want him dead too.
But does the girl deserve more stress in her life?
That's all the advice I can give you.
Decision - Old Dave - 01-28-2006
Killing sombody is never the answer Kirano, if he was not arrested and charges were never pressed let it go, she has or it seems that way. Basically you killing him would make you just like him.
So from someone who has gone through the whole killing thing, just vent your anger on a breakable object.
EDIT: Getting cuffed by the cops and worrying about jail time is not something you need at your age man, not to mention....lawyer fees are insane.
Decision - Banned Dana - 01-28-2006
Quote:Originally posted by Uub
Don't ruin your life, trust me, killing someone blows.
EDIT: six years have gone by..just let it go.
He hit the nail on the head with that one...trust us, we know.
Anyways. And I know it's been said a billion times in this thread but yeah. Let it go and just support her and let her know it isn't going to happen again, that you'll be there for her. Through a lot of Psychology, they say that a mans reaction to rape, usually violence, only leads woman to more mental stress and fracture. Instead of getting angry, I know it's tought, comfort her, and though it did happen six years ago, she's probably just looking for the comfort, not for a hero.
Though all this rambling, I'm just trying to say this.
Be a man the way that woman needs you to be, not the way you want the woman to need you.
Decision - Violet - 01-28-2006
Dude, it happened years ago, and I know the urge to do something drastic is a hard thing to feign away, but, this will always come back to the perp. Always. He won't get away with what he did, because you know what? He is haunted by his actions day and night, and that is enough torture that will drive him crazy, or drive him to the police, or, he'll do it again to someone else, and get caught, and then, he'll get his. People in jail don't like child rapists. Trust me on this. I've known WAY too many people in jail, and they brag to me how they beat/haze/other nasty icky stuff to those people. He won't get a way with it, and you are NOT going to ruin your life over this.