09-10-2011, 03:58 PM
I very much view myself as a learner in this game, so i dont mind losing a game honestly. People fuck up, they fail to have map awareness, whatever. Learning.
Honestly the only time i really get mad is when i feel like im being yelled at or talked down to. Kaden Ash and I often clash for this reason, ESPECIALLY through text. I recognize that the majority of the time they dont mean to sound" a certain way but i often feel it comes of preachy or condecending which, doll!4@ to dimes, will send me into a mind numbing hyper rage. This USUALLY doesnt happen when people use real people words but ive heard kaden go off on people before (usually cause theyre just ignoring him)
I think as a whole, as a community, we often fail to give advice or tutor people with the respect and patience people deserve. We have opinions, we have thoughts, but it does absolutely no good to anyone if you deliver help in ways that piss them off. Trygelan is a great teacher. He never nags or freaks the fuck out or carries a condecending tone unless its truly and utterly neccissary.
Meer, i hate to say it man and i still love playing with you, but you are like the OPPOSITE of that with mostly yelling. Everyone else falls somewhere in the middle or just doesnt say shit to anyone, which is whatever i guess.
Calling people out and trying to crucify them is also the wrong answer. It causes drama and it doesn,t accomplish a goddamn thing.
These are my thoughts.
Honestly the only time i really get mad is when i feel like im being yelled at or talked down to. Kaden Ash and I often clash for this reason, ESPECIALLY through text. I recognize that the majority of the time they dont mean to sound" a certain way but i often feel it comes of preachy or condecending which, doll!4@ to dimes, will send me into a mind numbing hyper rage. This USUALLY doesnt happen when people use real people words but ive heard kaden go off on people before (usually cause theyre just ignoring him)
I think as a whole, as a community, we often fail to give advice or tutor people with the respect and patience people deserve. We have opinions, we have thoughts, but it does absolutely no good to anyone if you deliver help in ways that piss them off. Trygelan is a great teacher. He never nags or freaks the fuck out or carries a condecending tone unless its truly and utterly neccissary.
Meer, i hate to say it man and i still love playing with you, but you are like the OPPOSITE of that with mostly yelling. Everyone else falls somewhere in the middle or just doesnt say shit to anyone, which is whatever i guess.
Calling people out and trying to crucify them is also the wrong answer. It causes drama and it doesn,t accomplish a goddamn thing.
These are my thoughts.
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