09-10-2011, 07:43 PM
Kole T. Merr Wrote:I can completely understand his frustration when people ignore him. I play with Kaden probably more than I play with any of you. He doesn't start out frustrated, but when people keep blatantly ignoring advice like "come to teamfights" or "let the carry farm", then he's not the only one to get frustrated. Kaden is just more vocal about it.
I'm not saying I'm perfect. Far from it, in fact. But I know when I've made a mistake before someone even telling me most of the time. That doesn't mean I don't appreciate the correction sometimes. After all, isn't that how we learn? From someone else pointing out the mistakes?
I had written this out before but it all got erased so ill prolly forget something. If you cant tell im on my phone.
But no, i can understand when he gets frustrated when people dont listen and the times that he freaks out are the times that people arent listening. But thats like, freaking out, you know?
As i said there has never been a problem between me and Kaden when we're over mumble but then again i hardly ever hear kaden talk over mumble other than his beautiful singing. The problem between he and on, on a very personal just him and me level, is that either he types or i interpret his writing as either nagging, condecending, or just being unneccisarily frustrated over shit. Thats a him and me thing though.
I think as a whole the chubbs community has a vaguely aggressive and snarky attitude towards playing this game. Teaching people is fine, but there definately respectful understanding ways to do that. Dont talk down to people. Down yell at people, give offhanded, light cooperative advice to people. If somebody is fucking something up, the right right answer isnt to yell. Now BOTH people are unwilling to cooperate IN the game and it creates drama outside of it. Calling people out or making public statments about others in a negative light is also the wrong answer. That accomplishes nothing but create a hostile environment and ruins the fun for everyone.
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