I didn't know that I've ever made anyone feel excluded or unwanted (except for Weemus for a while because of attitude that, though that changed and now I have no issue with him), so sorry if I've made anyone feel that way.
However, I almost always enter into games in "tryhard" mode, because I'm always trying to increase my skill. That's why I've been trying other roles instead of just jungle. Even in ARAM's and such I'm trying to work on things that can carry over into 5s and ranked: initiations, last hitting, when to defend and when to retreat, proper focusing of targets and such. Even in "fun games", I don't see why not focus on stuff like that, but that's me.
This below is directed at no one in particular, just my view on this situation as a whole
Also, as to team comps and other stuff, if you are queue'd with 3-4 other people, I'm sorry, but your fun doesn't out weigh their's. If they aren't wanting to dick around while you do something silly that might be fun for you to do but lowers the chances of winning if that's what they are wanting to do (first win of the day), then don't do it that game. Ask if you can do it after the FWOTD or go do it in a bot game or something. I'll say this again because it's important, one person's enjoyment does not out weigh three to four other people's. If what you want to do isn't in line with what they want, don't play with them that game.
Also, I can say that almost all of the time any comments I've made have been with the intention of it being constructive criticism, and I drop it after that. If it's been taken as something else, sorry, but I've been told by too many people to feel free to offer constructive criticism, so it's hard for me to stop, and I try to do so without it sounding condescending or as if I'm raging.
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That turned out different than I thought it would when I started typing that...
However, I almost always enter into games in "tryhard" mode, because I'm always trying to increase my skill. That's why I've been trying other roles instead of just jungle. Even in ARAM's and such I'm trying to work on things that can carry over into 5s and ranked: initiations, last hitting, when to defend and when to retreat, proper focusing of targets and such. Even in "fun games", I don't see why not focus on stuff like that, but that's me.
This below is directed at no one in particular, just my view on this situation as a whole
Also, as to team comps and other stuff, if you are queue'd with 3-4 other people, I'm sorry, but your fun doesn't out weigh their's. If they aren't wanting to dick around while you do something silly that might be fun for you to do but lowers the chances of winning if that's what they are wanting to do (first win of the day), then don't do it that game. Ask if you can do it after the FWOTD or go do it in a bot game or something. I'll say this again because it's important, one person's enjoyment does not out weigh three to four other people's. If what you want to do isn't in line with what they want, don't play with them that game.
Also, I can say that almost all of the time any comments I've made have been with the intention of it being constructive criticism, and I drop it after that. If it's been taken as something else, sorry, but I've been told by too many people to feel free to offer constructive criticism, so it's hard for me to stop, and I try to do so without it sounding condescending or as if I'm raging.
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That turned out different than I thought it would when I started typing that...