Help, please.

[Violet]

I feel ya. I am sorry about that. You will have your jackasses through life, and she just may be one of them. Don't let her string you any further, because eventually, your string will break, and who knows what will happen. Use this time away from her to collect yourself, it may take a while, but ask yourself what YOU want. you don't want the hate, as she had displayed to you already, you don't need it. All that hate just gathers up on your sould, creating black spots that cannot be removed, and bringing you down. That is a horrible way to go, man.

Yes, there are more people in this world who would more than likely jump at the chance of dating you, but just take this time, enjoy your singleness. Be you for a change without having to worry about her, or finding someone to take her place. You never know what will happen in the future, who knows, you might end up finding the one woman you can share your time with who enjoys you, appreciates what you are about, and not be so damn negative.

I am sorry, but not to be trashin your ex, but she doesn't sound worthy of you or your time anyway. You are the better, and you need to realize this. She belittled herself by acting like an ass, and think, if you two were to get back together, what will erase all those negativities that she had created previous? You don't need that, man.


Well, so much for my advice, Love peace and nappiness,

Vi