Proposal

[Retane]

Originally posted by Raditzu
I think it should be the man who proposes, but I'm more traditional about stuff like this.

Ok I agree with that.

Now. When I was 17 and in ohio, Amber asked to propose to her more then 10 times in les then a year. (This wasn't in no way shape or form the reason we broke up... unless she cheated because i didnt which I doubt... cuz.. dunnolol)

I felt like I wanted to be financially stable and had my feet on the ground firmly. I mean at the time I would have bought her the ring and shit but i had no credit and couldnt get a job till 18.

Thats how I felt. I honestly look at those 22 and younger having kids or getting married so fast as they do these days and call them foolish. I mean suresome work but from what I se they al change and are unhappy.... think before you do...

It hasnt been a year since I left amber or is about a year now and shes married and just gave birth. Care to guess how I feel this will end?



Like they said. Stop sit down and ask him. If you love him like you say you do then you should already be able to read him like a childs book. Bon'ty make him fel pressured. But dont hurt his pride either. Tell him you might want to do it. In the end this will decide it all. Can you or can you not communicate? Communication n love makes a relationship.