07-08-2006, 08:23 AM
First off, let me start by saying that as a man it is our duty to propose to the females. In some cases the females do propose but it is a rare occurrence. Women proposing just isn't the same. it just doesn?t feel right. I would be stunned if a girl ever proposed to me because I wouldn't expect it. It should be the other way around, but i will not propose to a girl just because I've been out with her for a year and a half. I will propose when I am financially ready to support her for life, and most of all WHEN I AM READY! Which for me will be a long long time away.
What naive young people now a days tend to do and I state A LOT, is go out with a girl/boy for just over a year and think it is time to propose to them. The other gender would then accept the proposal and the two will then decide to get married. These marriages tend to only last a year or two. Celebrities do this all the time and it's pissing me off! They may think they're ready to get married but in reality they are not. The only ones I feel sorry for our the parents. It's them that tell their children that they don't think they are ready, and that they should wait, but they tend to not listen to their parents and think that they no better. They go ahead and get married without their parents blessing and kabaam after a year and a half they split up and have their parents tell them "I told you so" and this happens a lot!
My point is there is no need to rush things. Anything successful takes time to build on. I could go ahead and rush my SK training just for the sake of Spiritken, but I am still thinking of ideas to make it better. I need time to do so. TIME is the key.
Eg - When you rush your homework, you won't do as well as planned. Taking time to do things would often result in success.
And there you have it folks. The way I see it.
What naive young people now a days tend to do and I state A LOT, is go out with a girl/boy for just over a year and think it is time to propose to them. The other gender would then accept the proposal and the two will then decide to get married. These marriages tend to only last a year or two. Celebrities do this all the time and it's pissing me off! They may think they're ready to get married but in reality they are not. The only ones I feel sorry for our the parents. It's them that tell their children that they don't think they are ready, and that they should wait, but they tend to not listen to their parents and think that they no better. They go ahead and get married without their parents blessing and kabaam after a year and a half they split up and have their parents tell them "I told you so" and this happens a lot!
My point is there is no need to rush things. Anything successful takes time to build on. I could go ahead and rush my SK training just for the sake of Spiritken, but I am still thinking of ideas to make it better. I need time to do so. TIME is the key.
Eg - When you rush your homework, you won't do as well as planned. Taking time to do things would often result in success.
And there you have it folks. The way I see it.