Lonely and its my fault

[Blind Man]

Don't look for somebody. Don't go out searching and hoping to find the right one. It's gonna suck but you have to lay back and just be yourself and do whatever, don't try to meet new people, let the new people come to you, because unfortunately if you are trying to get somebody, you won't. I've learned this personally. Let them come to you, there'll be one eventually. Just don't expect the first one to be an intense relationship like the last one. A generation gets older and the relationships get more serious, but a new relationship is just that: new. You can't start out serious because it won't work out. Give it more time and lay low. It'll come.

And if all else fails, try boys. But the first suggestion should be fine.