08-23-2005, 04:01 AM
First off, NEVER bring any sort of physical contact in with your beginning stages. Girls, at least the ones I know, have a tendancy to catch this right off the bat and start talking saying how "<insert name here> keeps trying to hug me and stuff." If anything try acting polite and stuff. Chivalry may be dead but that's no reason to treat any girl wrongly, hold each with respect... If she chooses to talk to you, you should feel honored that she has even decided to give you a place in her life. Pick up on little things she does, the way she talks, walks, communicates and find things that you like about each of them. Make sure they feel comfortable in any setting, always place her before yourself in EVERY instance. You have a chance to blow shit up with buds the same time you could spend some time with her? You better damn well pick her over them. The little words "Bros before Hoes" won't work in this, you wanna get with your buds or this girl? At random buy her things that may seem useless in your eyes... hell, some of the time I actually sat down and made something for a girl I was interested in. Quickly let's review.
1. No physical contact unless asked or at the right moment.
2. As much respect to her as possible.
3. Comment on the little things you like about her.
4. Make her as comfortable as possible around you.
5. Never blow her off in any case.
6. Make/buy her things randomly.
Most of all, be yourself... you're mostm likely going to be spending a lot of time around her and if you put on some kind of act that you won't be able to keep strait then she'll suspect something bad. Even when around your friends (Guys-friends especially) don't change how you act with her, hopefully she'll pick up that you're serious about being with her and that you'd never change even in public with her.
1. No physical contact unless asked or at the right moment.
2. As much respect to her as possible.
3. Comment on the little things you like about her.
4. Make her as comfortable as possible around you.
5. Never blow her off in any case.
6. Make/buy her things randomly.
Most of all, be yourself... you're mostm likely going to be spending a lot of time around her and if you put on some kind of act that you won't be able to keep strait then she'll suspect something bad. Even when around your friends (Guys-friends especially) don't change how you act with her, hopefully she'll pick up that you're serious about being with her and that you'd never change even in public with her.